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What
are Values?
by Shannon Seek, BS, CPCC
In this context,
values are not morals. They are what is intrinsically important
to you. You would not be who you are without honoring at least some
of your values.
When your values
are being honored, your life is fulfilling and juicy. Everything
falls into place. Things "click." When your values have
not been honored, life has been boring, dull, irritating, frustrating.
Frequently, the values that are the most important to you are the
least obvious--you often could not imagine your life without honoring
them.
With definition
of your values, however, it is easier to identify what is or is
not working in any given situation.
Imagine a person
who has a value called humor, but is not conscious to the fact.
Say that person is living with someone who never laughs. They may
feel disenchanted with the relationship and not know why, until
they recognize that humor is a part of who they are and they may
feel their humor is suppressed around that person.
Having a clearer
sense of your values, you will more immediately recognize situations,
people and things that shall enhance and reinforce who you are.
When you consciously
come from a place of values, you make decisions more easily, as
decisions can be made based on a personal foundation. Values serve
as a reference point when prioritizing actions, commitments and
goals.
Identifying
your values is a fascinating process that occurs over time, with
awareness.
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